Hello world!

It’s been a dream of mine to begin blogging about my personal, love, travel, and professional life. However, with the rigorous nursing program that I’ve been involved in this year, it has been difficult to find any spare time to do the things I love the most, or yet, the things I’ve always dreamed of working on.

I’ve just finished my freshman year of the nursing program, but since nursing requires students to complete multiple prerequisites, I’m not quite done yet. I’m not even half way there yet. If anything, my life has been put on hold due to recent problems that I’ve been having.

About a month ago, I was diagnosed with a couple skin conditions/infections. This has literally put my life on hold, because I’m stuck at home, coffee shops, under a shade, fully clothed trying to find inner peace/happiness and regain my health.

These health problems that I’ve been having this month has caused an intense amount of stress onto me and my family. I’ve never been so damaged internally and externally. For the past 30 days, I’ve broken down into tears at least once a day and the only person I have to blame for this cause is myself. Due to the stress I’ve been under, my doctor recommended that I reduce my stress, and the only thing (other than my health problems) that’s keeping me the most stressed out is school. So, I dropped out of my current nursing program and said goodbye to all the beautiful friends I’ve made this year. Even though I’m no longer in the graduating class of 2018, my school has given me another opportunity to join the next year’s freshman class, so I’m still in the program, but I’ll be graduating a year later than my age group.

Not only did I have to drop my classes this quarter and join another group of nursing students next year, I’m unable to do the things I love due to my skin condition. From now on, I cannot workout to the point where I sweat and I can’t tan/swim this summer, or at least until my condition has improved.

Although I’ve been going through an extremely rough patch, it’s time for me to center my energy into what I’ve never done, but have always had a passion for. Blogging. The main point of this blog is to post about everything that inspires me and to express myself through writing. Writing can help me to clear my mind and help me stay on track, so I thought it was time I made my own website to continue staying motivated. Lastly, my intension with this website is to write about whatever that comes my way in order for me to get in touch with my inner feelings/thoughts. I hope to inspire others to create their own blogs and become true with themselves through writing, and I hope to connect with you all around the world.

P.S. everything written and posted in my blog is all my work, unless stated otherwise.

Love ~

Saba Moghim

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Thoughts – 5:26am

what inspires you?

is it the depth of the sea?

the heat of the lava

the crust on the earth

or gravitational pull on towards earth beyond we will ever know

but take man and man

you won’t know who will have fear

enough to break down all the walls to create

something bigger than themselves

in order to find more power

how? they ask.

engineers will think, then soon to build, then run, and find more evidence

to find out they are exactly what is kept hidden from humans.

there you lie thinking, what is life and why/how am i here.

its 5:26am

i’m lit

turn up

Universe

The seas rolling over dry land

Days after the solar eclipse

The irony is strange but the thought of it is grand

Though some are in danger, I feel empathy

To build a better life for me and those that come before me

New waves of energy has shifted into my life

Exposing me to great opportunities and a new light

I’ve found my peace and happiness from this moment in time 

This constant inspiration to become better and healthier

From the moment the moon and the sun aligned, The world has never felt so inclined

To provide positive energy to those who seek greatness

I thank the universe for being on my side and generating a state of sedateness

My First Love

He was without a doubt my first love

We’d go through hell and back just to see each other for another day

We’d hit rock bottom and still come up from the top

We’d fight til we saw blood, sweat, and tears, but our love kept us alive

Everything in life became unimportant, as he was the only thing in my life I needed

To this day I wonder what kept us together after these years, but in all honesty, I’ll never know

Trust was broken, fears laid out on the table, and abusive signs peeked through the fragile glass

Still, we fucking loved each other to pieces

Now imagine if trust was gained and we improved as individuals… sparks would turn into fireworks and set the city on fire

My dearest, my first love, I will always love you

But it’s time that I start loving myself.

Goodbye

I felt love and now all I feel is empty

We strive to hold on but we’ve done that plenty

We got the music to our ears

Smoke within our lungs

Drink in our blood to refrain our tears

We had the world at our feet

Our dreams were reality

The sun gleaming down on us

We were two happy endings

Never the less we were ending

True colors shown through glass mirrors

We fought to keep our love free from errors

Time has come and and the cord was cut

Because this time around I’m being true to the feelings coming from my gut

TIPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH STRESS/ANGER IN A HEATED SITUATION

Lately, I’ve been evaluating my actions, mindset, thoughts, emotions, and the words that come out of my mouth.

All my life I’ve been a free- spirited wild child and I did/said whatever I felt like doing or saying (to whomever); even if it hurt that person. Knowing that the truth was exposed makes me feel better than holding it in because it would only hurt me on the inside.

However, as of lately, I’ve been noticing the actions I make or the things I say to certain people and I’ve been reflecting on those words that were spoken or the moves that were made, because I’m curious to know if it’s the right thing to do or not.

I don’t like to admit this, but I’ve always been stubborn and had a little bit of an anger issue. Those two don’t make a good mix, especially when somebody tries to poke at me or disrespects me. So, when somebody tries to mess with me, I get all riled up, and say things that I don’t mean or act in an aggressive manner (besides being physical) because my emotions go through the roof.

I recently got into a huge argument with my family about the same issue that we’ve fought about for about 3 years, then I realized, for once in my life, where I’m at fault and why the same old annoying argument continuous to be brought up to this day. Instead of pointing fingers at my family and assuming they’re at fault, I tried to understand where I was wrong, and why they felt the way they did about me.

From that point on, I promised myself that I would write about this topic, then find ways to cope with my anger, stress, and extreme emotions.

TIPS ON HOW TO DEAL WITH STRESS/ANGER IN A HEATED SITUATION

  1. Listen: I learned to stop refusing to listen to others, because you’re only repeating what you know and you’ll never learn or grow from that point on, until you give other people a genuine listen.
  2. Breathe: Taking a few deep breathes, instead of holding the anger in. It will be beneficial, not only to calm your nerves and stress, but when you take a few breathes, it will help you think more clearer and stay calm.
  3. Think: Think twice before saying something that you will later regret. Think twice before walking out the door and creating a scene or prolonging the argument.
  4. Choose: Choose your battles wisely. If this is something worth fighting over and coming up with a solution, then follow steps 1-3, and finally come to a compromise with the person you are dealing with. If this is not a battle worth fighting for, for you and the other party, then simply drop it.

 

I hope these tips helped! Take care and love on.

 

Poem to my Ex – Love Kills

 I gave you my heart, every single piece of it
But there you lied and said you’d cherish it
Things were good at first though it seemed
But those were the highlights of what we previously dreamed
3 months went by until we made the changes
Controlling one another until we’d fed our insecurities in arrangements
Falling in love has never been so easy
We were a perfect match and that’s why we burnt out so quickly
It’s crazy how we go by daily
Treating one another with respect then the next acting crazy
They all say your first love is usually a painted daisy
Due to the love and high that’s produced it makes our minds go hazy
Then came a twisted turn of fate
When we were fighting really late
The sky covered in clouds dark and grey
Thats when we began to realize it was time to run away
Our bond kept us close yet killed us the same day
We knew, for us, the end was near
So we began to stay really clear
Distance grew as our relationship failed
Because the one thing we did wrong was turn tail to bail
Lovers become strangers so easy
Funny how that flows so breezy
But I wish you the best EJA, you were never a mistake.
Now all that I’m left with are memories and a heart break
But this is our chance to grow and avoid any future aches
A piece of you remains in my heart, even though last night you did me wrong
I’ll never forget the person who came
Into my life and put my past to shame
But thanks to you I have grown and learned
To respect my self and body because that shit’s earned.
I hope one day we’ll come to our senses
Avoid our egos and break down these fences
Between our success that stands a wall
Which puts our relationship at expenses
I hope one day we can be friends
By coming together to make amends
Till then farewell
I wish you and your family well

 

1/1/2016 – 7/28/16

1 Year Anniversary

I created and published this blog for myself and to inspire and motivate others. I can’t believe it’s been a year since I was in the worst condition of my life. It’s been an incredible year of growing for me, physically and mentally. I’m more than thankful to have been given a second chance at my nursing program. It has given me the opportunity to make beautiful friendships, to meet an amazing man who I’m proud to call my boyfriend, to develop habits that I never thought I’d stick to.

By expressing my thoughts, feelings, and writings through this blog, I am more healthier and happier than I’ve ever been.

I vow to continue using this website until the end of my lifetime

I vow to write completely original, raw, and useful information

May 21, 2016